Carolina QuotesWhat we find is that lots of people can cheat a little bit. If we cheat a lot, we … face the possibility that we will feel bad about ourselves. So we play a game within ourselves.Sometimes we think about game theory as kind of a game between two parties. It is also a game within a person. You say to yourself, I want to think of myself as a good, honest, wonderful person. I selfishly want to benefit from dishonesty. It turns out that you can cheat a little bit and still feel good about yourself. That is the general lesson that we find.
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Dan Ariely on ‘The Honest Truth About Dishonesty’, Knowledge@Wharton (March 31, 2014)
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“What we find is that lots of people can cheat a little bit. …” Dan Ariely. Carolina Quotes, record CQ-1223638793. https://carolinaquotes.com/quote/1223638793
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