Carolina Quotes…it’s really easy to get caught up in how you’re hurt and not really think about whom you are actually hurting. At football games, they kneel, but they’re not kneeling for domestic violence in the NFL. They’ve had a huge rate of domestic violence, intensely physical domestic violence that has become public, and you know that’s the tip of the iceberg. That’s not even talking about accusations of sexual assault. It’s not talking about the actual murdering. This is part of the culture where men, who have been professional athletes, have done things. We don’t talk about that. They aren’t kneeling for that.
Reginald Dwayne Betts Connected to the Carolinas
Source
On ways in which Black men harm other Black men by being complicit in “The Reckoning: An Interview with Reginald Dwayne Betts” in The Paris Review (2019 Nov 7)
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“…it’s really easy to get caught up in how you’re hurt and no…” Reginald Dwayne Betts. Carolina Quotes, record CQ-A5CBFD6723. https://carolinaquotes.com/quote/a5cbfd6723
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